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“Don’t be the one who has to explain things to your wife,” said Mongeau.
“She has to understand it too.”
The 26-year-old former Arsenal and Chelsea striker is the founder of the website Mongeaux.com, which helps women with their dating and marriage strategies.
“The most important thing is to listen to your husband and accept that it’s all his decision,” Mongeauso said.
“He can decide to stop or to continue with the relationship, but you can’t force him.
It’s up to him.”
You’ll find advice on dating, relationships, health, self-confidence and dating apps at the Mongeas website, and Mongeans advice on how to find a new husband.
If you’re feeling stuck, you can ask Mongea to help.
She said: “If he is asking for help, don’t be afraid to say ‘yes’.” If you or someone you know is struggling to make a decision about a partner, you might also want to read this guide on what you should know before you decide.